Ep. 585: A Simple Way to Spark Better Conversations, Plus the End-of-History Illusion

Wed 6 May 2026, 07:006 May

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We explore how asking paired questions can lead to more open, engaging conversations. We also discuss the “end-of-history illusion”; we keep changing more than we expect. Plus we share a simple hack for using photos to reduce worry.

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